Investigating the complexities of male childlessness

Dr Robin Hadley

Researcher, consultant, speaker, teacher and writer 

Welcome to the website of Robin Hadley


Thank you for visiting my website. My name is Robin Hadley and I am a  consultant, educator, researcher, speaker and writer.

My area of research concerns the impact of male involuntary/circumstantial childlessness across the life course.

A book based on my research, ‘HOW IS A MAN SUPPOSED TO BE A MAN? Male Childlessness – a Life Course Disrupted‘ has recently been published by Berghahn Books.

The hardback and Epub version of the book can be bought directly from Berghahn Books through this link for the hardback copy and this link for the Epub copy.

The book is available to purchase through all good bookshops and online at Google Books, Amazon and Kindle and to loan from public libraries. Find your local independent bookshop at

The Foreword, Introduction, most of Chapter 1 (‘Contexts of Childlessness’)  and sections of other chapters can be viewed on Google Books Preview.

My book was recently referenced in Antonia Hoyle’s Daily Mail piece, ‘Why DO men find it so hard to admit they could be the reason their partner can’t have a baby?

Site guide

Click on the ‘About‘ link above to find out more about me and the history of this website. Use the other links above to find out more about my work on various projects and publications. Links to podcasts and YouTube interviews,  radio, and newspaper articles  are located in the ‘Media’ section. Links to other resources can be found in the ‘Useful Links‘ section. Answers to questions I get asked most about can be found on the Frequently Asked Questions page.

I welcome enquiries from the media. To contact me please go to the Contact section.

The House of Lords COVID-19 Committee has accepted my written evidence arguing for the recognition of People Ageing Without Family(LBC0114) with regard to the long term effect of Covid-19.

My latest papers are:

Hadley, R. A. 2021. ‘‘No longer invincible’: the impact of involuntary childlessness on older men‘, Physical Therapy Reviews 1-16.

Hadley, R. A. 2020. “Male broodiness: Does the desire for fatherhood affect men?” Psychreg Journal of Psychology 4(3): 67-89.

Hadley, R.A. 2020. ‘Men and Me(n).’ Methodological Innovations, 13: 2059799120918336

Earle, S., Marston, H. R., Hadley, R. A., & Banks, D. 2020. ‘The use of menstruation and fertility app trackers: A scoping review of the evidence.’ BMJ Sexual & Reproductive Health.

Marston, H. R., Hadley, R. A., Pike, G., & Hesketh, I. 2020. Games for Health & mHealth Apps for Police & Blue Light Personnel: A research review.’ The Police Journal: Theory, Practice and Principle

Hadley, R.A., Barry, J & Newby, C. 2019. ‘Anxious Childhood Attachment Predicts Childlessness in Later-life.’ Psychreg Journal of Psychology.

Hadley, R.A. 2019. ‘”It’s most of my life – going to the pub or the group”: the social networks of involuntarily childless older men.’ Ageing and Society.

Hadley, R. A. 2019. ‘The impact of male involuntary childlessness.’ Psychreg Journal of Psychology.

Hadley, R. A. 2018. ‘The lived experience of older involuntary childless men.’ In Sparkes, A. C. (Ed.), The Annual Journal of the British Sociological Association Study Group on Auto/Biography. Durham: BSA Auto/Biography Group, pp. 93-108.

Earle, S & Hadley, R. A. 2018. ‘Men’s views and experiences of infant feeding: a qualitative systematic review.’ Journal of Maternal & Child Nutrition, 14(13), e12586

Hadley, R. A. 2018. ‘“I’m missing out and I think I have something to give”: experiences of older involuntarily childless men.’ Working with Older People, 22(2), 83-92

My very first paper – based on my MA and MSc – can be found here:

Hadley, R.A., & Hanley, S. 2011. ‘Involuntarily childless men and the desire for fatherhood.’ Journal of Reproductive and Infant Psychology, 29(1), 56-68.

Why is the study of involuntarily Childless men important?

Research on men who are involuntarily childless is important not only because of actual and projected demographic change  but also because the evidence base on the effects of male involuntary childlessness on men as they age is virtually non existent. However, in many countries there are more childless men than equivalent women.

It is estimated that in the UK by 2030 there will have at least two million people aged 65 and over without an adult child to support them if needed.

I became interested in male involuntary childlessness when studying for my Master of Arts in Counselling (2008) at The University of Manchester. I studied the topic for my dissertation and discovered there was very little information about men’s desire for fatherhood or experience of unwanted childlessness. In that study I interviewed 10 involuntarily childless men aged between 32 and 60+ years old. The majority of the participants linked their childlessness to episodes of depression. The desire for fatherhood peaked in the mid- 30’s and gradually declined. However, the wish for fatherhood did not cease.
Intrigued by the absence of the male voice in the research surrounding reproduction I self-funded my Master of Science (2009, The University of Manchester) to try and find the level of ‘broodiness’ in adults in females and males, non-parents and parents. The results of my mixed-methods study found that there was little difference in the desire to become a parent between female and male childless individuals. The findings also indicated that for some male participants not becoming a parent had a greater negative effect than reported by equivalent status female participants.

I completed my PhD at Keele University in 2015. My research study explored the experience of involuntarily childless older men and has gained much international attention (see the Media page).

A summary of my PhD thesis can be found in the ‘Research‘ section where the summaries of my MSc and MA dissertations are also available.

Ageing Well without Children

If you are over 50 years old and consider yourself living without children you may be interested in the organisation Ageing Well without Children (AWwoC).
This grassroots organisation aims to raise awareness of the issues faced by older people who are Ageing without Childlren (AwoC) with governments, councils, academics, health and care institutions, and charities.
The Ageimg without Children report ‘Our Voices’ provides a detailed resonse to the question ‘How will and should older adults without children approach their later years?’

The population of people ageing without children is hidden and remains unreported, under-researched and under-represented at all levels (see also my chapter ‘Ageing without children, gender and social justice‘ in Ageing, Diversity and Equality: Social Justice Perspectives. Edited by Sue Westwood).